Memory Monday. Friends I've lost over time (Es-Eng)

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Como están mis amigos de esta maravillosa ¨Qurator Community¨:  Como todos los inicios de semanas es momento de recordarles que ya pueden participar de la pregunta de la nueva semana del #memoirmonday. La iniciativa que ha creado nuestro amigo @ericvancewalton para que podamos participar los días lunes, y a través de las preguntas dejar un mensaje para nuestros seres queridos que serán alojado en nuestra ¨blockchain¨ y estarán en la web para todos y por siempre


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How are my friends from this wonderful ¨Qurator Community¨:  As with every beginning of the week, it's time to remind you that you can now participate in the question of the new week of #memoirmonday. The initiative that our friend @ericvancewalton has created so that we can participate on Mondays, and through the questions leave a message for our loved ones that will be hosted on our "blockchain" and will be on the web for everyone and forever


El #memoirmonday es de esas iniciativas muy fácil de participar, y puedes averiguar las consignas ingresando al link de ¨esta iniciativa¨:  Como les mencione anteriormente, cada semana nuestro amigo Eric hace una pregunta y tienes toda una semana para compartir con todos tu respuesta; la pregunta de esta semana es muy interesante y te hará recordar cosas preciosas que hayas vivido con tus amigos y por circunstancia de la vida, han tenido que abordar un sendero diferente


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#memoirmonday is one of those initiatives that is very easy to participate in, and you can find out the instructions by clicking on the link "this initiative":  As I mentioned before, every week our friend Eric asks a question and you have a whole week to share your answer with everyone; this week's question is very interesting and will make you remember wonderful things that you have experienced with your friends and due to life circumstances, you have had to take a different path


Desde niño tuve la particularidad de que otros chicos se aceraran y me ofrecieran su amistad, no había un lugar a donde fuera que hiciera no un nuevo amigo. Prematuramente tuve la experiencia de perder a un amigo, todo sucedió cuando tenía ocho años y nos tuvimos que mudar de casa a causa de la separación de mis padres. Si bien en el barrio he tenido varios amigos, uno verdadero era la amistad de Beto, un chico dos años mayor que yo que le gustaba pasar tiempo en mi compañía, recuerdo que en su patio trasero había muchos árboles y podíamos construir casas preciosas en ellos. Esta es de esas amistades que lo voy a recordar toda la vida, ya que en esas tantas construcciones de casa en los árboles sufrí una caída y el gran golpe que tuve en la cabeza me dejo una gran herida, y es inevitable no recordar cuando alguien me pregunta por la lesión. Si bien he regresado años más tarde a casa de mis abuelos, hemos crecido y la amistad se disolvió


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Since I was a child I had the peculiarity that other kids would approach me and offer me their friendship, there was no place where I went that I didn't make a new friend. I had the experience of losing a friend prematurely. It all happened when I was eight years old and we had to move house because my parents separated. Although I had several friends in the neighborhood, one true friend was Beto, a boy two years older than me who liked to spend time with me. I remember that in his backyard there were many trees and we could build beautiful houses in them. This is one of those friendships that I will remember for the rest of my life, since during those many tree house constructions I suffered a fall and the big blow I had to the head left me with a big wound, and it is inevitable not to remember when someone asks me about the injury. Although I returned years later to my grandparents' house, we grew up and the friendship dissolved


Como era de esperar en el nuevo barrio hice muchos amigos, entre ellos se destacaba un amigo que se llamaba Miguel, en realidad él no era mi amigo, mi amigo en si era José, su hermano mayor, pero como les dije, yo tenía esa habilidad de atraer a las personas; con Miguelito como acostumbraba a llamarlo, disfrute de su compañía y su amistad gran parte de la adolescencia, y nos tuvimos que separar cuando decidí buscar un mejor futuro en la ¨ciudad¨ de ¨Buenos¨¨Aires¨, en realidad lo invite a que viajara con migo, pero sus padres eran muy diferente al mío, y no tenía confianza que unos adolescentes de 14 años pudieran vivir solos en una ciudad tan alejada como es la capital del país


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As expected, in the new neighborhood I made many friends, among them a friend named Miguel stood out, in reality he was not my friend, my friend was José, his older brother, but as I told you, I had that ability to attract people; With Miguelito as I used to call him, I enjoyed his company and friendship for a large part of my adolescence, and we had to separate when I decided to look for a better future in the "city" of "Buenos Aires", I actually invited him to travel with me, but his parents were very different from mine, and I had no confidence that 14-year-old teenagers could live alone in a city as far away as the capital of the country


Mi llegada a la ciudad de Buenos Aires fue ¨triunfal¨, la ciudad me recibió con los ¨brazos¨¨abiertos¨, donde recibí un lugar para hospedar, trabajo para mantenerme, y amigos para disfrutar de la vida. En esta ciudad viví la mitad de mi vida y coseché muchos amigos, uno de ellos se llamaba Walter, con él nos conocimos cuando mi esposa estaba embarazada, y tuvimos una amistad bastante larga por muchos años. Las personas que haces vida lejos de nuestra tierra natal vivimos con las esperanzas de regresar a casa, y fue en esta decisión de regresar a mi pueblo natal cuando volví a perder un nuevo amigo. Los amigos son esos familiares que uno escoge, una persona que tiene empatía con todas las cosas que te sucede y cuando lo pierdes son muy dolorosos. Ahora en mi tierra natal no he creado nuevos amigos, no quiero pasar nuevamente por la misma situación de perder una amistad, dado que no sé qué me espera en un futuro ya que tengo hijo en otra ciudad alejada de la nuestra, y otro hijo en otro país, uno no sabe si más adelante no tomara la determinación de acercarse a vivir más cerca de ellos, sobre todo por el gran problema que tiene nuestro país por la ¨corrupción¨ y las ¨crisis¨¨financieras¨ recurrentes.


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My arrival in the city of Buenos Aires was "triumphant", the city welcomed me with the "Open arms," where I received a place to stay, a job to support myself, and friends to enjoy life with. I lived in this city for half my life and made many friends, one of them was called Walter, we met him when my wife was pregnant, and we had a long friendship for many years. People who live far from their homeland live with the hope of returning home, and it was in this decision to return to my hometown that I lost a new friend. Friends are those family members that one chooses, a person who has empathy for all the things that happen to you and when you lose them it is very painful. Now in my homeland I have not made any new friends, I do not want to go through the same situation of losing a friendship again, since I do not know what awaits me in the future since I have a son in another city far from ours, and another son in another country, one does not know if later I will not make the decision to move closer to them, especially because of the great problem that our country has due to "corruption" and the recurring "financial" crises.



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Through our lifetime we meet many friends, when younger it is far easier for most. Moving never helps as friendships dissolve naturally, meeting new friends is a path well walked with many fond memories.

Nice to think back to those who we trusted and had fun with over the years.

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Good morning dear friend @joanstewart
I love this challenge, it gives you the opportunity to go back in time, this time remembering old friends who are no longer here
Thank you very much for the great support you always give me
Have a really beautiful morning

Many we grew up with are no longer with us, good to sit back and remember them fondly.

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I was a person who could make friends easily when I was younger too but am finding it's harder to do now. I don't know if it's because we're older or if the world has just changed after the pandemic? People just don't seem to be as open or interested in socializing as they once did. Thanks for your contribution and I hope you're having a good weekend my friend!

People have undoubtedly experienced a great change after the pandemic, I think that interest in socializing has been lost, since those times relationships became more virtual

Thank you dear friend @ericvancewalton for the great support you always give me

Have a beautiful afternoon