Greetings to all those wonderful Hiveans who are still continuing to write their memory down the lane in the #memoirmonday prompt hosted by @ericvancewalton - An entry purely based on your experience in the yesteryears. Here is the link
Coming to the prompt
What is your best relationship advice?
A relationship advice can never be explained in words unless you experience it. It is easy to break a relationship rather than making one. Every relationship has its own respect.
Family time in a restaurant
One of the most beautiful relationship the marital relationship. Because it is one of the most lengthiest relationship of being together, if Almighty wills. It is better to know eachother before you get into a relationship.
From the time of my marriage, I have often heard elders saying , only when you clap with two hands you hear the sound rather than with one. Meaning, the matter gets worsened, when two of you keep arguing, with neither of them ready to give up. So for the smooth functioning in a marital life, its always better for one partner to remain silent at times when things worsen.
Not by say, but by action, it should be proved behind every man there is a woman or vice-versa. Life is not a bed of roses, should come into realization at the earliest. This is the stage where we exert our anger, we share our happiness and sadness and the time when we make up after a fight, embrace eachother, exchange of surprise gifts ,a warm hug, growing along with kids are all those best moments one can ever miss in a marital relation. So never let go your partner when he/she needed you.
For a successful marriage, to win the trust of a spouse, never hide anything from each other. Instead of knowing things from a third person, its always better to open up whenever necessary. Let go your ego to get a better friend.
Most times I have seen, either of them is not prepared to hear what the other has to say. But I strongly believe to spare few minutes can definitely make wonders for a peaceful relationship. This really is a very important aspect, because if you do not spare sone time, then a third person is considered. And this being the main reason for a separation.
These are just a few highlights for a successful marriage. When relation get strained, it difficult to move around under one roof. If such condition prevails, its better to give up rather than continue. But that should not be one of the last decision. Give a try. Never regret before its too late. But if you feel you cannot cope with eachother, then make a wise decision.
My mom having fun time with cat at my home when she came for a week's stay.
A relationship that you can always lean on, when in pain is the parental relationship. Such a wonderful relation. No matter how old you are, you are still kids to them. Even as and when we get old, we keep getting advices, guidance and restrictions as such.
Though we know whatever is being told to us, listen patiently to please them. Once they get old, many parents are confined within the four walls of the room, but this barrier an be broken if we take the initiative to take them out. It is just a matter of time.
At this juncture, I would like to thank my sister who is settled abroad with her family and trust me, despite her tight schedule she makes it a point to take my parents for an outing or for an international trip.
Somethings are just at our reach, but still we hesitate to take a move, unless someone does it for us. But in any relationship don't try to be the second one, be the initiator and execute it wisely.
Thankyou for stopping by. Wishing you a great week ahead.
Our state is celebrating a festival called Onam and so the schools and colleges have declared a ten days off and three days for government organisation. You can know more about it through google.
