Yep, that's a good point and I feel happy that that's the case. It's difficult being the uncle and being so far away but I'm made to feel part of it. I was on video chat with my niece in Finland on her way to pick strawberries the other day. It was nice, we talked, she showed me the scenery and strawberry farm (which I went to with her when I was there last) and I felt I cluded.

I like to think I add some layers of value to their lives and when I'm gone and they get everything I have amassed in my life they see it as more than wealth, that they remember who I was.