Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to be sweet all the time because there were times that you will fight with each other and that's one thing that is a healthy relationship about having a fight together with your partner because if there's no fighting between the two of you means that there's something wrong with it.
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But a consistent of fighting with lots of arguments and other stuffs is not healthy and there is someone who is toxic among the two of you.
There are lots of types of having a toxic relationship, some will be a form of jealousy towards other people, abusive relationship, gas lighting, and etc. They were the common types of a toxic relationship and it can be avoided if they will confront with each other flaws and tell them about their relationship on what will they improve to have a better relationship.
What effects that may cause for the toxic relationship?
There are lots of causes of having a toxic relationship and some doesn't want to have another relationship after their last relationship because of the trauma that they've got from it. There are some that they want revenge on their past and toxic relationship.
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In many ways, a toxic relationship can lead to a mental issues, stress, low self esteem, and others because that's what they think about their relationship and that is not a healthy relationship but it will lead to them to suicide or death.
There were times that it will affect their lifestyle that they couldn't imagine that they can do that in their entire life. Some will go out and drink alcoholic drinks just to burst out their feelings and cry in front of their friends, colleagues, or even in their families. Sometimes, they will not focused on their field of work because they always think about their relationship on what he/she do.
Thoughts:
Having a relationship needs to have courage that you are prepared on something unexpected that will happen because it is not always a happy one that there will always be a challenge that you will experience in the relationship. Fighting together is one way to make a relationship good.
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I am thankful that my relationship now is not toxic that I usually hear and see with other people's relationship that they cry, be wasted, ending their lives, and etc.
With my wife that is very considerate, GOD fearing that we put GOD at the center of our relationship, and understanding that she always supports me on the things that I do and sometimes we have a fight like a family problems but we always settle it in less than a day because it's not good to not settle it for more than a day.
This is my entry for day 24th of October inleo prompt. This is the link of this day's daily prompt for the month of October.
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