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merit.ahama in Snaps • 5 days ago

I learned about two sisters who have been living for over 10 years without talking to each other, they had a fall out many years ago and swore never to relate with each other again. I think it's a crazy thing to happen but I hear that's just one of many cases.

So I ask this...

Do you see yourself as someone who holds grudge or say it out and let go?
Do you respond to someone who is trying to get you angry, whether the person knows or not? And how do you show your displeased reaction most of the time, calmly or harshly?

5 days ago in Snaps by merit.ahama

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marsdave 5 days ago

That's a lot. Staying together for 10 years + without communication. I doubt if I can call them humans 😂, like...
Well, I'm not that type of a person though. I don't keep malice or hold grudges. If you offend me, I say it out. And if it requires that we go out separate ways, then I still try to make sure we end things on good terms, not the type we will see each other after few years and not be able to say some greetings 🤞

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Oh no! They weren't together anymore, like they stopped being together when they swore not to relate with each other again.

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marsdave 5 days ago

Ohhh, my bad 😔
Even still, they are siblings for crying out loud . What could have transpired between them both to warrant that 🤦

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

If they even decide to tell what it is, I'm pretty sure you'd be shocked they held grudges for such. 😂

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marsdave 5 days ago

You gerrit... Like.
And am sure both must have been feeling the urge to talk it out, but then one could be expecting the other to reach out first 👌

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

You can't be sure of that o, the last time I heard about them, one still gets very angry when any about the sister is said in her presence. 😂

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marsdave 5 days ago (edited)

Ahaha
That's huge o
I pray nothing bad happens to either of them o, but if it does it's obvious they wouldn't even bother.

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

I pray so too.

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

That's a good attitude because I believe it is those we love that can offend us so we're bound to forgive them if we really love them.

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marsdave 5 days ago

Exactly 💯

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logen9f 5 days ago

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afrikens 5 days ago

Bombastic side eye 😂

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

I know right?! 😂

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goldenproject 5 days ago

I don't hold grudges for long. If something bothers me, I'd rather say it out understand where the other person is coming from, and move on, but letting go doesn't always mean going back to how things were....

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Yeah, letting go is needed so some things don't repeat itself especially when it stirred you up before.

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goldenproject 5 days ago

That is just it 💯

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goldenproject 5 days ago

If someone deliberately tries to get me angry, I usually don't give them the reaction they're looking for. I can be calm about it like I'm always calm, but if a boundary is crossed repeatedly, I'll make my displeasure very clear

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

I believe that attitude is a very good one for people who deliberately try to annoy you, they will get tired or feel foolish when you give them the silence of calm. 😅

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goldenproject 5 days ago

That is just the honest truth. And I'm glad I don't have such people around me or do you?

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Not at all, I just hear in stories of people who intentionally frustrates people around them. It's sad really.

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goldenproject 5 days ago

So sad.
But then, personally, someone can't frustrate when when it's not that they tie us rope together 😹🤣

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afrikens 5 days ago

Some people are specially endowed with the act o. Even without nothing to instigate frustrating people, they just activate it somehow

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afrikens 5 days ago

Exactly... When the English people said, silence is the best answer for a fool, we thought they didn't know what they were saying

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goldenproject 5 days ago

But then, two sisters not talking together for that long time and they are living together. That is really crazy

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

They are not living together though, they are older women. But it still is crazy.

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goldenproject 5 days ago

Even though
Upon still.... they are blood sisters. They can definitely do better.

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

I wonder what they are teaching their children. 🥲

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goldenproject 5 days ago

Definitely, hatred and a bad example. Cos children like these will never grow up to fully understand what family love is except they unlearn it....which might kinda be hard

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afrikens 5 days ago

I would say I show my displeases calmly cos I'm always careful of not end up hurting people with my words just because they hurt me with theirs.
You know the phrase of "2 wrongs can never make a right".... So it's always on my head

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merit.ahama 5 days ago (edited)

That's a good phrase to remind yourself of always, many make matters worse because of harsh response.

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afrikens 5 days ago

Exactly and things doesn't always work that way. Although some will say it's good to use fire to cure fire at times 😀

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Lol no o, you are for peace always. ✌️

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afrikens 5 days ago

😂 how do you know and what if I want to change

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afrikens 5 days ago

My clause may only be that, I don't react or it's rare for me reacting to issues immediately cos I wouldn't wanna say something I'll later regret so I ensure that I get calm from the tension of the situation and by then my choice of words are active and functional

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Yeah, I think 9 out of 10 if not all 10 have to be calm before they respond for them not to say what they'll regret. But sadly, only few try to calm down. Cool you're one of the few.

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afrikens 5 days ago

Yeahh it takes practice too to have such habit

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afrikens 5 days ago

And two blood sisters living under same roof without talking to each other seems so strange. Are they possessed? 😂 Even if they are living separately, it shouldn't be worse like that

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

No, they live separately. They are adult sisters o. Elder women self. 😂
Together or not, whatever it is that happened should have been long forgotten na.

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afrikens 5 days ago

Yes now that was what I was saying. It should have been settled

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merit.ahama 5 days ago

Too bad, that's not the case.

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afrikens 5 days ago

It is well for them o

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favour20045 4 days ago

10 years, 😳 and they live in the same house. 😳😳 That's weird.
But anyways they tried,😅 I just imagine the kind of humans who exist in this world.
For me, I get easily angry, but I don't let it control me, so ever someone tries to pull my legs, I just look at them and smile.

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favour20045 4 days ago

And shift from their present, then after they most have finished talking or misbehave, I go to them and tell them the reason I gave them space. So I get my heart free and my mind at rest. That's my biggest win in life..