What I meant to say was:
The problem isn't talking (after all, maintaining contact is a fundamental human need; given that we are naturally sociable creatures) but rather, how we talk about these kinds of subjects.
Agree, you should always be aware of that and remove yourself from toxic exchanges that don't produce anything useful. I recently wrote an article about the toxicity of the algorithm and how can AI tame and filter the information to get what's actually useful.
https://ecency.com/@jza/the-mechanics-of-information-influence