Great read, not surprised :)

a game of "talk-a-bounce" - where we sit on the floor, bouncing a ball to each other, and talking about random topics

This, and likely all the other 'games' you guys play, should surely set this young lady up to do great things.

I asked her what she would do then. "Toast the marshmallows!"

Unbelievable at her age!

If we spend it on what we like and what feels good in the moment, we are likely missing building the knowledge that helps us experience something more deeply, more fully later.

Blame the parents! Not you though.