This post and the part about trying makes me think of one of my favorite quotes from the movie "The Rock" with Sean Connery and Nicholas Cage
John Mason: [while on the stairs leading to the prison morgue] Are you sure you're ready for this?
Stanley Goodspeed: I'll do my best.
John Mason: Your "best"! Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen.
I think it speaks a lot to that whole getting out of your comfort zone thing and actually doing the uncomfortable try versus the comfortable try.