Ah I see, sorry my mistake...Had you written it in Spanish I would have understood completely...although only if you wrote the word hola because that's the only work I know...but I'm fluent in saying it for sure! 😁

I agree with you, being unaffected by others is a strength, to be able to stand tall as ourselves and confident irrespective of whether others agree or not, or whether they seek to pull us down. That's such a powerful quality to possess.

On the centre of attention thing...I see people at these events trying to be, attempting to look like the smartest person in the room...but the thing is they gain the least from the situation; Listening and observing others is where the best will come; this is why I've honed my skills at getting people to talk and keep them talking...I learn more.

I did an edit to my last comment, I'm not sure if you saw it. 👆