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RE: Turning 138

in Reflections15 days ago

I moved to Texas for 6 years, midlife adventure. It was pretty weird not being around any of my family. I flew home every Christmas for about 10 days and flew back twice for family weddings. The holidays were weird, but I have to say the folks I worked with were so friendly and multiples would invite me to celebrate the other holidays with their families, so I was never sitting lonely. It wasn't the same of course. I found I could survive away from them and I LOVED the adventure. My family was the only thing I missed, but I couldn't imagine living extremely far away forever now.

Plenty of people do it I know and if I was younger I might go on another temporary, extended life adventure, but we are getting too old to be apart now I think.

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I know people who don't mind it so much but I really miss my niece and nephew and video chats just aren't the same. I'd really love for them to come here to stay but it's not going to happen so I take what I can get. When I exit the workforce I'll be able to travel a lot more and for extended periods so it'll not be soo bad I think. For now, I guess I just have to deal with it.

Family moving around is always going to happen I guess like you did, people have to live their lives as they choose.