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enraizar in YouHive • 7 days ago

Good evening @ph1102, literature or cinema works because many of us feel identified with someone we don't know. Feeling the same or similar to other people, I think, is possible... and necessary: it is the beginning of compassion.

Another issue is that the reformulation you have made of the phrase is very accurate, the original phrase can feel like a belittling of the pain of the injured or suffering person.

Regarding generations, I was born in '69, I don't understand mine and it's very difficult for me to understand the later ones...

Happy night!!

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ph1102 6 days ago

Regarding generations, I was born in '69, I don't understand mine and it's very difficult for me to understand the later ones...

You are an alien... 😃 Who knows when you were born and came to our planet... 😂

Just kidding... I suppose understanding our generation can also be a problem, especially when we continue our lives separately, far away from each other... As we are still growing and developing, we are doing that in different environments, maybe different parts of the world, even...

Sometimes, I have the same feeling when I reconnect with an old friend from my childhood... He was my best friend 30 years ago, but today we barely have anything in common to talk about...

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enraizar 6 days ago

Good morning or afternoon, @ph1102 . Here is a message from my planet. 👽 Life distances and brings people together, I think it is a natural process and it happens to all of us. I am lucky to have friends who are older, younger, and my age, although perhaps they are also from another planet.😄

As a generation, mine is a huge disappointment, it is the generation that rules. And regarding the younger generations, I share my parents' vision of the world more than theirs... with young people the world has changed so much, the way of communicating...

I hope that your health is now completely recovered.

Happy weekend!!

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ph1102 6 days ago

And regarding the younger generations, I share my parents' vision of the world more than theirs... with young people the world has changed so much, the way of communicating..

Now, I'm curious about this... With young people, it's changed for better or worse. :) I mean, it is definitely different from what it was in the past, but I would like to hear your opinion on this... No political/diplomatic answers, please... 😜

I hope that your health is now completely recovered.

Yes, I did! Finally, everyone at home is feeling better! 💪

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enraizar 6 days ago

Greetings @ph1102, there’s a saying that goes something like “be careful what you wish for, because it might come true”… here’s my "brief" response:

I don’t judge, so I’m not going to weigh in on whether the younger generations’ worldview is better or worse. Although I will comment… on some differences.

As for the generational divide among the younger generations, for me it’s a novelty that was unthinkable when I was a young man. Back then, I shared, along with many other young people, a strong criticism of the adult world; however, we had many role models who were “older” people.

For example, Juan de Pablo (born in 1948) was a role model for many of us young people who were beginning to get into the music our parents listened to. I don’t know of any similar cases today.

Another issue is the construction of identity. I belong to a generation in which the neighborhood was very important in the creation of that identity. The neighborhood is more than a geographical location; it is a shared space. Neighbors know each other; if there is a need, they help one another; they greet each other on the streets. Now, the new neighbors (younger people) don’t say hello or hide so as not to greet you.

Identity is now built through other means, as far as I can tell. I can’t deny that I’ve always been somewhat of an individualist, but family and the neighborhood have always been there.

Although, as a generation, what has set me apart most from the younger generation (and from my own) was 2020. If there’s one thing that defines youth, it’s rebellion—that’s how I see it. And in 2020, one night in March, on the first day of lockdown, I found myself at a friend’s house breaking the “rules” alongside two other “old folks.” Meanwhile, for months I saw no signs of youthful rebellion, despite the harm being done to younger people.

Critical thinking requires effort and patience. And here I am talking about forms of communication. Social media, especially platforms like TikTok, “teach” the opposite—the immediate gratification of desire—and encourage the creation of stereotypes and “the wittiest wins” type of arguments… For me, it’s another world…

I hope I haven’t been too much of a bore.

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ph1102 4 days ago

Thank you very much for this great "brainsharing"!

I couldn't agree more with everything you said... About us as kids having older role models, but still criticizing adults (nowadays kids do something similar, especially teenagers... they know it all the best... 😃)... Don't know their role models today... maybe some young people who reach "fame" very fast, and they have them as role models... crazy TikTokers, and people doing ridiculous videos...

Also, the neighbors' "culture" is something that doesn't exist anymore... Only the older generation is saluted on the street, or wishes a good day... Having a son at a young age, I do wonder what's missing the most... Respecting older people more? Or just listening to others (don't have to comply), or something else? Don't know...

Or, I'm just an old fart who just complains about everything... 😂

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enraizar 4 days ago

Good evening, here's a message from a grumpy old man (yes, I am one 😆), thank you very much for the exchange of ideas. There will be time for more...

Have a good night!!

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