Here's a little extra story about my god father. When I was attending the Catholic church back in 2004, he was only a very young kid 🤣 I'm slightly older than him. I didn't fully commit into the holy relationship with god until some 20 years later. We're already good friends all these while, but spiritually, he's way "older" than I was. When I needed some spiritual guidance, he's that "father figure" to me despite he's younger.

He has a young family, and his wife (I now unofficially call her my god mother) and the sister in law are also in the choir team in the church, naturally we became very close, and so are the kids. So yes, we almost go to dinner together every weekend after mass.