RE: [EN/PT-BR] Love and Sacrifice.

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deraaa in Hive Learners • 3 months ago

Wow. I’m speechless. This is way deeper than I expected. I don’t even know what to comment because this hit me hard and made me wonder if my partner sacrifices too much. Am I sacrificing too much?

And I understand that part of being happy despite it all. There are people who are so content with giving. I was thinking just a few days ago about how ironic it is to categorise a relationship between a giver and a taker as symbiotic. But there are people who are just willing to let it go. Let it slide. Be there. Expecting nothing in return.

For some reason I can’t name, I’m proud of you 😅😂

3 months ago in Hive Learners by deraaa

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shiftrox 3 months ago

Relationships are always complicated, I've never had much luck with them and with my wife at the moment, I have a daughter and a son, we've been together for 9 years (since 2015) and we love each other, I believe that, but even so, it still feels like something is missing, perhaps a little more affection and sacrifice from her too.

I don't like to measure who does more of this or that, it wears down the relationship too much, but I always feel that I sacrifice more, that I have to keep quiet more often to keep the peace... it's strange.

That's what love is, it's good and bad at the same time.

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deraaa 3 months ago

Why not talk with her then?

Maybe… just maybe (we never know) she’ll see things when you lay them down. Perhaps giving in too much is what encourages her behaviour.

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shiftrox 3 months ago

We've talked so many times, I don't know if one more conversation would do the trick. She's very hard-headed, I am too, but I lose out to her in this respect.

My situation is complicated, but that's what I've been going through, just trying not to generate any more fights and arguments, hoping that one day we'll be able to align ourselves properly.

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deraaa 3 months ago

Ahhh. Will not push any more. Hehe. You know best how it is.

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shiftrox 3 months ago

Hello, everything is fine, I'm very happy that you're interested in the subject, your concern and your comments, hive needs more people like this, who really read something and care about it. Give you a big hug and have a great day!

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