Hello Motherhood Community!
Today I have so many things to do. And on top of that are the things I need to prepare for my daughter’s trip next week. It's for 5 days. Both Aya and Zoe will have their school trips. Being a mom can be overwhelming. I was looking forward to picking her up in her singing class and after buy some stuff at home and for their trip.
I saw Aya waving at me from afar and watching her running towards me, she's my happiness and my life. She is really a big girl.
In the middle of my hectic schedule, that moment made everything lighter. Her hugs and kisses melt me. She's my sweet little darling. She is my ultimate why? Why is mama doing everything for her? My ultimate reason is that we work so hard for her and Zoe. And even on the days I feel like I'm racing also because of my responsibilities. Mama will balance my time for you.
While were on the streetlights, waiting to cross the street. Aya saw the Triples Fast Food. And immediately says to me, Mama I'm hungry. Before that I'm planning to go to the supermarket to buy some things needed at home. Bu she's hungry I think it's a good idea. I will not cook for our dinner.
So I agreed on having our bonding too before facing the rest of the day.
Then we headed to Triples Fast Food, it's our usual go-to when time is tight and our stomachs rumble. But its not always we go there. When we craved for our favorite. Aya ordered her favorite hot wings and large fries combo. I went for the spicy chicken burger and large fries combo.
We're both really hungry and we don't even talk to each other. And after that we have time to talk to each other. Talked about her school, upcoming trip and anything under the sun.
It wasn’t just eating together. It was a moment for us. These moments are reminders that bonding doesn’t always require plans. Sometimes, it happens unexpectedly like this on my busy day.
My full attention is more than enough.
After eating, we headed to Lidl supermarket nearby to grab groceries. While walking together, I asked her what she wants to eat for tomorrow. And she answered, I dont know mama. The biggest problem for me is what I will prepare for tomorrow's meal. I know mommies you can relate too.
When we arrived at Lidl, we bought important things. just small things that we can carry because my husband is not around. His on business trip. Just food for days together.
And everything was set and it's time to go home. Carrying a bag of food, we walked together going to the bus station. Waiting for our bus from home, we took snapshots together. Capturing this beautiful simple bonding we have.
Such a simple part of the day and yet so full of togetherness. Catching up to do list, shared moments together at Triplets, chatting that turn into opportunities to listen and getting closer.
The core truths about motherhood are that every simple moment together with my daughter I give love and full attention. It is not about grand planned things. Sometimes a simple meal outside, talking and together in the supermarket will love them. I create another bonding moment with her.
Just being present is enough for My Aya.
