It sounds like you are in a unique situation. Putting family first is the correct decision.
Most of the posts I've been seeing on Reddit about Instacart lately are something along the lines of "Where did all of the orders go". That coupled with the fact that I'm lucky to see one good order a day anymore just made me know it wasn't something I could continue to rely on. Thankfully, I had been looking for a new job for a couple of months now. I landed something that fits what I'm wanting to do right now and am actually about to head in for my first morning today. We will see how it goes. I'm still adamant that crypto is going to eventually take the financial stresses out of the picture for many of us. It just has any happened yet for me.