One of the first things I told Cathy when we got together was I did not want anything with her life and her independance to change.
Not possible. You must/will change together. Can't grow a relationship without some pain and frustration. Your learning new coping mechanism.
Wishing you the best with your project challenges.
!LOLZ
!BEER
!PIZZA
Sending !LUV and positive energy your way.