Heartbreak is something that doesn't happen to me often, but if you see my heart broken that means I was really hurt and the hurt came from someone I really loved....
I'm going to write about what happened that led to my broken heart and how I dealt with it...
I hate being in a relationship seriously, I feel relationship comes with a whole lot of responsibilities and numerous things and I wasn't ready for it. But there came this handsome looking fresh guy that I fell in love with.... We were friends before we started dating and don't get me wrong, people have their own red flags and demons including me that all we need is adjustment In a relationship.
We used to flow very well until I decided to tell about one of his bad character that I didn't like....
Anytime he comes to my house to visit, out of the 6 hours he is coming to spend at my place, he will use 5 and a half hours to receive calls from different girls that he has.... I wasn't angry because he was receiving calls from girls oOoOO.... I was upset because he didn't admit he was always wrong anytime he did that which will always lead us to quarell.
I told him to stop visiting me because there was no need, instead he said I was insecured....
He continued this act until it was my birthday.....
Oga didn't text me weather phone SMS or chat, he didn't call, he didn't do anything but what baffles me was that on my birthday exactly 4 oh his girls and 1 of his male friend celebrated their birthday....
I didn't see his status because I thought he was preoccupied with work...
In the evening hours when I came back from school, my brother called me and showed me his status... This means that he had blocked me that particular day from viewing his status, and forgot that my brother had his number which will enables him to view his status.....
Omor, I cried, I was so heartbroken, I never expected it to reach that extent... I was mad, I wanted to call him but I had to get hold of my emotions....
Exactly two weeks later, baba called me and acted like nothing happened... That was when I was shocked and I was like.... mennnnn!!!!!!!!
This was how I dealt with it... Very simple...
I made sure I deleted everything we ever shared in the surface of the earth, his pictures, his text messages, his chats, I deleted his number too and finally I deleted him too... I made sure nothing in my life reminds me of him.... This is close to 6 months and a new year too and those pieces he broke I mended all of my broken heart and now nothing will make me fall in love again if I see those red flags around me ....
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