Hello friends, welcome back to my blog and compliment of the season. It has been from one celebration to another for us this month. We all thank God for bringing us to this day.
Show me your friend and I will tell you who you are. If wishes were horse. When I was coming up as a young girl I hear people use this proverbs alot. I just listened to it and never put my thoughts to know the meaning of what they are saying. I think that I made the wrong choice when it comes to making friends while I was younger. This is what kept me when I am now.
WHAT IS MY MESSAGE TO MY YOUNGER SELF.
I never bothered to ask why my mother kept disturbing me back then on the type of friends that I keep. She will always be very angry when she sees me going out with them. In her words, they are bad influence to me. They actually succeed in making me run away from responsibilitiea at home. We just want to move around with boys, eat what we wanted. But we don't think of tomorrow. Anytime that I come back from such outing, my mother will talk and talk until she gets tired, but I wasn't getting why I will not be allowed to enjoy myself. Hahahaha 🤣. Now I am understanding...
Then I thought that she was been too boosy. It got to a time when I felt like running away from the house all in the name of wanting to go far away from my disturbing mother. Today my eyes is seeing everything very clear. I wish that I listened to her and many other elderly ones who tried their best in stopping me from going out with the wrong friends. My advice to my younger self is to make good and God fearing friends who will lead me to the right part. Should I say that it was meant to be so? Sometimes when something goes wrong we will encourage ourselves by saying that it is how God want it to be. Well I seem not to see it that way. If I had followed the correct friends and made the right choices in life I should have gone far today. But my choice of friends made me remain where I am today and at a time I had to start life afresh when I was sopposed to be enjoying life.
USING MY LESSONS TO TEACH OTHERS.
I have resolved to use the mistakes that I made earlier in life to teach others how not to be victims like me. It has helped alot and some girls have been saved by my story. This is the best that I can do right now. I know that some will still not believe me until they have entered into the same boat that made me fall. But this is not my prayers for them. I pray that every one growing up should make decent friends who have the fear of God.
The image belongs to me. A friend's phone was used in snapping tue picture.
