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Hiveghana weakly topic is [ When it comes to the issue of marriage, there’s been an unending controversy. Do you think “for better, for worse” should be implemented all the time? If no, what type of worse do you think should be enough to end a marriage? ]
The biggest reason for marriages to end is that people nowadays get married so that their lives can improve in the future, but after a short period of marriage, this does not seem to happen and so many problems arise and in the end, divorce has to be taken. The main reason for this, I think, is that when there is no trust in the relationship, this seems to happen.
Therefore, whenever two people have ego in a marriage relationship, the first thing they have to do is to see whether their natures match each other and whether they can live a good life together or not. If they do not love each other, then the future will be difficult for them. Therefore, it is better that parents also think that if the boy and the girl love each other and both are happy with each other.
And can live a good life together in the future, then their marriage must be done. If this is not done and both of them are married in separate places, then in the same way, we will not see the marriage as successful. First, here I will talk about how marriage can be improved and how it can be improved in the future and how adding or subtracting something can save relationships. So here I am saying that when marriage is done,
Trusting each other is the most important thing and understanding each other's nature and temperament is also the most important thing. So here I am saying that one should marry a person whom we already know and recognize or if someone falls in love with us and there is a good understanding with each other,
Then we should get married right there. This will clear many things for us in the future and here we have seen that love marriage is what it is, but even after that, the divorce rate of love marriage is high and that of arranged marriage is low, so we have to think about this too. This is happening because some boys and girls do not understand each other at first and do not give each other time and get married quickly.
And then in the end the result is that both of them have different natures, so it is impossible for them to live together. And here we have seen that there are many such arranged marriages in which the boy and the girl do not know each other beforehand and they get to know each other only after marriage, so why does their relationship become stronger and why is there no verse system in their case and they live happily with each other?
It is a fact that marriage is between two people and promises are made to spend the rest of their lives together, but here we see that due to other relationships, in some places it always seems to end. So here I have to say that when a boy is married, he also has a relationship with his parents, siblings and other relatives.
There are many relationships with each person, so the girl also has to think that only after respecting all the relationships will the married life be good. These were the ways in which, if done in this way, the existing marital relationship can be further improved and now we will share some of the reasons why this relationship is ending so quickly and why the divorce rate is increasing here.
Here we see that the biggest problem after marriage, which is divorce, is that the girl wants to live a free life and the boy does not ask her anything at all. This should not happen at all because the nature of the girl is such that she quickly gets into people's conversations and this is why this world is not being successful. So girls have to understand some things here that the boy does not think wrong about them,
But these things are bothering him. Today is the time of social media and it has become much easier to contact each other. And then after that, if the girl gets into a relationship somewhere after marriage and then after that, if her husband finds out, then that relationship ends immediately.
So the biggest reason for the end of the relationship here is the advent of this mobile phone and here those who look at the mobile phone a lot think that in reality, the life inside the mobile phone will continue to go on and on and on. It would be like that, but it doesn't happen here at all because we know that there are a lot of problems in real life and what is being shown in dramas is not true at all.
That is why I am saying here that marriage is a compromise and in order to maintain a good relationship with each other, some habits and things have to be given up. If the boy leaves or the girl leaves, then it will benefit both of their lives in the future. If this is not done and both of them remain stubborn, then this relationship cannot work. Therefore, it is better that whenever a decision is made to get married,
First of all, this decision should be made only after thinking about many things because when marriage is done in the future, then many more problems arise. If there is no understanding with each other, then Therefore, the decision to get married should be made by both the boy and the girl themselves so that in the future, the family members do not have to face any problems and the relationship continues happily throughout their lives.
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