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RE: For Marriage, there ought to be a balance

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In my country most of the marriage is engage marriage and so it's impossible to check the love. In fact, so called lovers can't be sure about love. So only thing can be checked is money so why not priority it. If money is enough and behaviour is well there exist huge possibility to grow love. In that case love and money can co exist at the same time and it's ideal one.

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No doubt about growing love but do you think it's sustainable?
I think there is what is called courtship and no doubt, I personally feel it's an important phase before every marriage because love wanes eventually and at that point in time, what sustains marriage becomes memories and children.

I might be wrong with my chain of thought though but I think it's a big a big risk entering into marriage just with the confidence of building the love when you get there

Do you think love having a lot of financial problems is sustainable? I don't think so. And I didn't say huge money. I said the amount of money for which one needs to run a family.

I personally feel it's an important phase before every marriage because love wanes eventually and at that point in time, what sustains marriage becomes memories and children.

In my country, most marriages are engaged marriages, and in that case, I don't see anything wrong in the case of sustainability. Most of the marriage are sustained for a long time. It depends on the mentality of the person. Moreover, In the case of love, I don't think anyone should fall in love before the 22 as there is a high possibility of making the wrong decision and wrong person for love because of immaturity.
In the current time, Love also comes after seeing the wealth background. It should not be like that but it's the harsh reality. If you find true love then you will be lucky in that case.

Do you think love having a lot of financial problems is sustainable?

Was never tailing down the road of Love alone without Money though 🤷

I don't think anyone should fall in love before the 22

Well, here is another factor to consider, Age!

Love also comes after seeing the wealth background

I stand to disagree though but it's fine, I get your point