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This write-up is inspired by #Hiveghana wk 89 engagement topic - Friendship.
Have you ever had to give up on a friendship due to one or two issues? What happened and at what stage did you come to this decision? Would you like to rekindle the friendship now or it’s too late?
I love making friends at every stage of my life because I am someone who can't really keep things to myself.
I like making friends I can confine in, I talk to them about things that bother me.
Talking with someone about something bothering me makes me feel better.
The new saying, "Problem shared, is gossip shared."
Meaning there are some people that when you share something with them, thinking it's going to be safe with them, that particular thing discussed alone with them, might actually be discussed with someone else in a mockery way.
Well, I never cared much about this.
Weather, you are going to mock me later with something I discussed with you, as long as that heavy chest is loosened and freed.
Though, I select the people I share things with even though sometimes we can be wrong with our choice.
I made a friend in secondary school who I so much adore and respect.
She is unique and intelligent.
My friendship with her was so amazing and went well, though there were ups and downs in between, but nothing serious, and I didn't really consider those things.
After our secondary school certificate exams, everybody went their way, and it was difficult to see each other often.
But we always reached out to each other through phone calls communication.
And I usually visit her whenever I am in her town.
We grew up and things started changing gradually.
I gained admission into university before her, and I noticed she became a bit distant from me.
Maybe she thought I wasn't in the same level as her or my actions make her believe so.
I also started noticing some difference in her character, which I believe she must have noticed a few changes in my attitude and character too.
Gradually, from talking once a week to once in two weeks to months and no more.
We grew up, met new people, changes occurred in our character that we couldn't handle and gradually separated.
I wouldn't want to rekindle that friendship because it won't go well and it would be forced.
We can be cordial with each other and appreciate those memories we shared back then.
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