While preparing my meal I sort of have this “me time” where I can have conversations with myself, it has this calming effect.

That's how it is for me too. It's called mindful cooking:)

As a homemade meal lover, I advised him to try to first get most of the basic kitchen utensils and appliances as he might have a need for them one day.

Good advice, and it's great that you did not try to preach to him:)