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missdeli in Healthy Happy Kids • 6 months ago

maybe the second birth doesn;t influence us so much?

Yes, for me, second experience having a baby so far is much easier. I feel more relaxed and even taking care of the baby is easier. Things just come naturally.

.....like I lost myself after the birth of the baby;))

I'm sorry to hear you had a hard time back then...dont blame yourself, my dear. Becoming a mom changes everything. It was way harder for me too, with my first, especially the four months or so.
They say you dont give birth only to a Child, a mom is also born. And a New personality we dont know and we dont know what to expect.

And yes, I have some "free" time, if you can say so.
If it wasnt Caleb, I could have said I have plenty of Free time. Because the baby now only sleeps and also. But meanwhile, I need to Take care of the oldest.

Thank u for checking on us. We are fine! 🥰😘

6 months ago in Healthy Happy Kids by missdeli

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taliakerch 6 months ago

you dont give birth only to a Child, a mom is also born.

golden words!! really so. the woman changes so much after the birth of the baby.

I'm more relaxed now when I see that women can take the second birth easier;) Of course, it differs and depends on many reasons, but still you're a great example for me;)
maybe the first birth was so crazy for me because of breastfeeding and hormones volcanoes;)

Does Caleb help you already?:)

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missdeli 6 months ago

Well, hormones sometimes do a huge mess. I was also breastfeeding Caleb, until he was 2 and a half. 😀🤣🥰
But I think it's not just about the hormones we feel different. It's everything else. Our mind and body change, our perception, our worries, our thoughts. After having a baby you are responsabile for them, from day one. Ita not just you anymore and this changes a woman Who just became a mom.
There is also the unknown, what is next and what can happen.
Plus, we dont know much when having a first baby. Altough I have read books and books, when I held my baby for the first time, I felt I know nothing. Breastfeeding can sometimes be harder at first, so we, as mom, need to deal with so many after birth. Not to mention the birth itself and the fact our bodies are exhausted.

No, Caleb doesnt really helps with the baby but he's helpful when I ask him for a few little things like..in general. And that helps!

How are u? Are u fine?😍

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taliakerch 6 months ago

yeah, dear, you're right, and nobody can understand Moms except Moms;))
I was the same - I felt I knew NOTHING:) and I was so lost! I was alone and had almost mobody to help me. No friends, no good advisers, only Mom but she was lost the same because she was a young Mom many many years ago and she forgot all these worries and ways out of them. And we had different views on health and food issues as well... we had many disputes and quarrels because of it, and thus I was absolutely alone. But maybe it made me stronger;) Am I know more ready for the second baby? Well, amn't sure;)) but I have to be not so lost I hope;))

I'm Ok, thanks! Too many cares now. I have a good profitable project in my freelance work. I am happy because I like my job as a copywriter, but at the same time I have a great lack of time. All days fly so fast and I have no time to do everything I want and have to do. I see now that I have either time for unschooling of my boy or for my own work. Now I try to combine it and feel very tired every day... housework+unschooling+my own work+help to my parents is too much for me... Try to find more time in this short 24hours day;)

But what am I telling to you?:) you've 2 kids! and house work as well, so you know what lack of time means I think;)

do you practice breastfeeding now again?:) magical moments....;)

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