rule,ready for what comes with it and choose between old custom and the modern tradition
Some says the are in the modern era but still do things in the old way. To me, I see nothing bad when a lady does it just that our society will see it as weird
It's only weird or bad until it comes to an individual level, do you want a woman to ask you out or would you like to be the one who asks a man out?
I'd still be the one to ask. That's my preference, not because I believe a woman asking is wrong. I don't think who asks first determines the value or success of the relationship
That's a good mindset. We should focus more on our preferences over what society says it must be.