Housekeeping.

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I remember the early 1980s, when I started my first business and was interviewing for a messenger boy, one little lad, Patrick his name was, begged me “Please, missus, please giz the job. I’m from the Cattle Market and nobody’ll take me on.” The Cattle Market was a notoriously rough part of Dublin. I hired him on the spot. After all, I’d lived in more than a few dodgy areas myself, thanks to my parents’ profligate ways, and while I was never ashamed of that, I’d also never been in the position of having to find work.

Of course, once I rid myself of my parents and worked my way up from nothing to a state of extreme poverty, the standard of my accommodation improved considerably. Not that I’m particularly house-proud, though I am fastidious about cleanliness and order, or a maniac if you believe my brother. As long as everything’s clean and in its place, I couldn’t care less about aesthetics.

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When we moved into this house almost six years ago, it came fully furnished with the previous owners’ belongings — bedding, cutlery, pots, pans, the lot. And that’s exactly how it has remained. You may think I’m joking, but there are presses and drawers exactly as they were the day the former owners walked out. The only thing I’ve changed is the tablecloth.

Perhaps it’s a consequence of spending much of my life in rented accommodation. I live as though I’ll be moving out next week.

The clown you see above, for example, has been hanging around since we arrived, as has this poster.

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I haven’t touched the drawer full of placemats I’ll never use, nor the one housing a shoe-polish collection.

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Life’s just too short… or too long. I can’t quite decide.

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Posted in response to galenkp's weekend experience
prompt asking 'Are you house-proud and care how your home presents and its state of cleanliness?"and 'Are you ashamed of where you live and come from. '

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oh my god that totallyfreaks me out. I can't handle other people's posessions. My worst nightmare is other people's shoes.

Hahaha, I'd be barefoot if it wasn't for other people's shoes and I've always bought secondhand clothes.
I was amazed at the way you remodelled the house you bought before moving in.

I've always bought secondhand clothes.

My uncle owned three dry cleaning stores. My mother's best friend had a daughter who was six months older than my older sister. All our clothes came from one or the other source. My sister would get the daughter's clothes first. She'd pass them on to me. My younger sister would get them when I was done. My uncle would bring us 'abandoned' clothes...clean clothes no one came to collect.

No more used clothes for me !!!

I wonder if children still wear hand-me-downs. Probably not. I would have preferred them to the horrendous creations my mother ran up on her sewing machine.

I wonder if children still wear hand-me-downs

I know babies do around here. It is customary for a mother to bundle up her baby's clothes and equipment (crib, etc.) and pass these on to an expectant mother.

the horrendous creations my mother ran up on her sewing machine

I think if your mother had planned to sabotage your childhood she couldn't have been more successful :)

My mother sewed also, but she was a professional seamstress. She had worked in the factories in the New York fashion district before her marriage. She had collected a suitcase full of fabric remnants and another suitcase full of thread spools. When we needed a very special dress for a school assembly she would mine these supplies, sit at her trusty Singer machine and put together something spectacular.She would have to sew these late at night when we were all in bed. Her custom creations were often the prettiest dresses in the show. Our shoes, on the other hand, were another matter. I mastered the trick early of putting a piece of cardboard in the shoe to cover up a hole in the sole.

I think I’ve said this before, but your mother sounds like a dream. Do you sew? I still have spools of thread my mother acquired while working as a machinist for Jeswin Overalls in the late ’60s. I’ve no idea how, but her sewing bag has followed me for over forty years.

I never learned how to use the sewing machine, but I am ready with a needle whenever something needs hemming or tucking. I like to sew. It's very relaxing.

her sewing bag has followed me for over forty years.

I think that's more than practical. I think there is more to that sewing bag than thread.

your mother sounds like a dream

Thank you. Her birthday yesterday so I'm a bit nostalgic.

I've had charity shop shoes, but I'm fussy. I think it's really old shoes in museums that make me feel queasy...

Jamie made me laugh the other day. I was reading to him about a find on the beach in Wales - a heap of Victoria shoes washed up. They reckon they were probably from a shipwreck, a crate of shoes stuck in the mud and then broken up and released after being preserved for so long in the muck.

Jamie: All those soles, lost at sea.

But seriously, the thought makes me gag...

:))
I just can't adjust to using other people's stuff. I'd rather do without. I remember when my husband first saw my apartment oh so long ago--my mother lived with me. He looked around the living room/dining room. We had a couch. He said, "Where's the furniture?"

Hahaha! Always a minimalist - or are others maximalist??

Interesting that the last owner left everything; is that common there? Here, only fixtures and fittings are left, personal effects and chattels are not included generally.

No, it's entirely unusual, but they were emigrating and we were moving from rented accommodation and didn't even own a spoon, so it suited us both. I can't even imagine trying to furnish a house from scratch. It'd be my idea of a nightmare.

I guess here mostly people have their own stuff already. Some rentals are provided fully furnished but agents prefer their clients do not; to messy and complicated when things go wrong.

Interesting. It's the opposite here. I'd say 99.9% of rentals here are fully furnished. I've never come across one that isn't.

Strange how places can be so dissimilar.

It is pretty common in both Portugal and Italy too.

Well, I'd want them to remove their stuff as I'd not want any of it, I have my own.

Keeping the drawers exactly as they were for six years is the ultimate low maintenance move! I think a lot of people over-complicate their lives with decor, but if it’s clean and functional, why bother changing it?

My sentiments exactly! I came from a lifetime of city living so was delighted with all the walking shoes, wet gear and warm fleece jackets they left behind....the sort of stuff I'd never have been seen dead in in the city.

I'm a germaphobe. Not only do I not want to use anyone else's stuff, but lately I've taken to wiping down surfaces whenever I go to a hotel. Never walk barefoot. Never sit on the spread. This can certainly get out of hand :)

Hahaha. As long as you don't start storing your urine in milk bottles!:)

I worked in the hotel business, and your caution is well founded. Cleaners are often given just fifteen minutes per room to change the bed, hoover, and clean the bathroom, which is nigh on impossible unless you just wipe everything over with the same dirty rag.

Interesting that you didn't put everything in the garbage when entering the house... Who knows one day that clown might be worth thousands!

Only if the previous owner stuffed his Bitcoin keys inside and then forgot:)

I got to clear out the 'belongings' of the drug-addict squatter who had essentially hijacked the house from the legal owner when I moved in. Everything from broken furniture to overflowing ashtrays and a USB-charged red buttplug. I gave away the kitchen stuff and took the rest to the dump

My wife and I started out with second hand furnishings. I don't think that would bother me too much. I think we might have found that very useful when we were first starting out as a married couple. However not changing anything probably wouldn't fly. My wife is constantly moving things around.

Hahaha, my mother was the same. She was forever rearranging the furniture, and relocating the crockery, pots and pans to new positions in the kitchen, purely to torment my father. In an attempt to keep the peace, I took to sellotaping labels onto the presses she’d rearranged.

That is hilarious!

I too moved into a house and garage full of the previous owner's stuff. China cabinet full of useless (to me) china. Vitrines full of tiny limoge boxes. Multiple drawers full of placemats! Walls covered with lavishly framed prints of famous artworks. A basement full of broken appliances, cook books, children's art, lifetime memorabilia, Christmas decorations etc. I arrived with a moving truck full of my previous house full of stuff. Most of it had to go. I hated the "art", I had no use for a dozen or more sets of placemats, I threw out the broken appliances, refrigerators and assorted memorabilia. It took me months to move in and be comfortable here. There were a very few pieces of furniture that I love, otherwise it was mostly junk to me.

Did you not bring any of your own stuff with you?

I moved in with a suitcase of clothes, a jukebox and an easy chair. I travel light.
Why did the previous owners leave their stuff?

They didn't get it out before I moved in, and expected me to pay them for it. I said come get whatever it is you think is so valuable, which they declined to do. I threw a lot away, gave away a lot more, and kept all the silver.

Ooh, you're hard as nails:)

I bought the house from my cousins. They blame me for their not getting the stuff out in time (they had three full months after we had an agreement). One of them has been going around town telling people he's going to spit in my face if he runs into me. This has not been pretty. I'm pissed. Hard as nails is right.

Ah, I see. Your cousins. That makes sense.

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