I think when we forget all that, it's easy to overlook the beauty things we have in life. I harbored a lot of resentment to everyone around me until I notice these little things that actually do matter. When it comes to my mom, realizing that she is an individual before mother was a huge realization that made me just appreciate her more and also felt sorry for the things I said that I shouldn't.
I hope your daughter could realize that, we'd feel a lot less bitter about life, and everything really.
Take care always and have a great day 😊