We have our ways of loving people and that doesn't stop us from disliking them at an instant or gradually when they misbehave.
What’s One Habit That Instantly Makes You Lose Respect for Someone?
For me, it’s when someone constantly disrespects others but expects respect in return.
What about you? What’s that one habit you see in someone that immediately changes how you perceive them? Let me hear your honest answers
When I find greed and selfishness in someone, I don't actually disrespect you because I wasn't taught that way, but I'll distance my self from you.🙃
Hmmm that's another way to set things right. We don't have to disrespect before we make our decision known but do you think losing respect for someone has to do with verbal outpour alone?
Nope, it doesn't. For me, it's a gradual process caused by repeatedly actions.
Exactly 💯 and with that, if the person is observant and open to correction then they will adjust
Respect is part of it for me too, because they say respect is reciprocal. But what I can say it is for me is when someone is so selfish which makes that person inconsiderate and everything is always about them....mehn, I will gradually dislike such act or personn overtime.
I dislike selfish act too.... You don't want to be disturbed while sleeping but you won't hesitate to disturb another person while sleeping. It pisses me off
Ahh adults does it o. Infact I tried communicating it stylishly so as not sound offensive but then the person no gree understand till I said it directly
I don't have such adult around me cos it's so annoying to interrupt someone when resting. At times I developed headache from it
That's just it. Headache and I hate to have it let alone caused by someone who interrupted my sleep because of some unnecessary thing
Even though we might still be talking, but I'm already gone. I can't just stand it when someone is so selfish and inconsiderate and still be playing the nice card when everything is all about them. And luckily for me, I read a lot of things fast
I think we are kind of similar there but reading things fast for me, some do count it as me being an over thinker
Is that really true?
They are close but different things. Overthinking is different from reading people's energy. One is stressing over things and imagining it beyond the normal, the other is seeing through people through their actions and words sometimes
Hmmm wise man. I get it
But do you think people who imagine ahead of things and were mostly right should be tagged as overthinkers?
They can still be tagged as that because sometimes they are right and sometimes they can be wrong
Yeah that's true and when it's wrong, relationships are tampered with already
You're right, one thing gone wrong can spoil a whole right and that is same for loving someone. Sadly, love can happen just as easily as dislike can. We just decide how long each of them stays.
The dislike might even end up becoming more than how the love was depending on what happens. But do you think the initial love wasn't deep enough for the dislike to end up becoming more?
For me, I think I'll lose respect for someone who's words and actions don't match. You're always running your mouth to say what you'll do but no workings, it's like you're just fooling yourself or trying to fool people even though you can't fool me in that regard.
Hmmm so apparently he or she seems to be in serious with their lives and not worthy of being associated with
Exactly, so ingenuine and not even caring what it means to relationship with people.
Like they are not aware they have such act right? I said something around that on a comment like that
I believe one of the things people respect about people is that, they are consistent with what they say and do. So in the other way round, nobody wants to be around someone who only talks and talks except it's to watch them fool themselves, like I do sometimes. 😂
Eweeee that's deep anyway but have you ever thought about it that they might be taking steps on working around it without your knowledge but because it's not working yet, you feel they're always just talking
Well, while that is possible for some, I've seen a lot more who are just all talks. I guess when their workings finally come out, they could get my respect back. 😅
It doesn't even have to be some grand workings, just be sure to not say what you will not do. It doesn't look good to me in anyway.
It eventually become irritating to ear sef. Like you're always expecting the blabbing
But have you ever talk it out with such a person before if there has been any
Some might not see it as an issue
I have with a few that are very close though but yeah, some don't see it as an issue.
It is well with us but I feel like they started from procrastinating and wasn't careful enough till it becomes a full habit