Who Should Pay on the First Date?
Should the person who asked for the date pay, or should both split the bill? Is it about courtesy, equality, or expectations? What's your take?
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I think for the first date,the person who asked for the date should pay for everything. Then if they'll going out again,the bill should be split into equal half.🤤
Hahaha 😂 I'm a man obliviously and I never try to make a woman pay even when is not a date just to go out I feel this is like obligation of common sense.
Hmmmm but it has been a point of argument lately that so many expectations are on men. Like compulsorily paying for dates and the likes
Yeah because some men and women feel is wrong but my opinion is the right thing to do.
🤣🤣, always you say. So what's the duty of the women when it comes to paying a bill?? Or they just have to do the orderings and the men pays?? 😅😅 It's unfair 😮💨
Well if you think about 1 in 10 or maybe 2 women to ask you for date is obvious.
Yes is true but the shocking on this will be a men pay think how many more will ask if that happens.
This life is not fair on men 😂 .... So if it's a guy, you share the bills or he pays it all
What if she is the one who ask you out? Will you allow her pay the bills or you will still treat her to the date
I think the person who asks for the date should be prepared to pay. If I invite you out, I shouldn't suddenly develop amnesia when the bill arrives and start studying the ceiling🤣😂
😂 it's the amnesia for me... Probably you need a hit by the lady to recollect your memories
Oh fine... That's better. So it's not always an overdo when ladies complain of guys not treating them nice on their dates especially first date
That said I don't think splitting the bill is wrong, especially when both people agreed to it beforehand. It's just that if I was the one who said, “let me take you out' then I should be ready to actually take you out....
But what if the lady is ordering for too much than you predicted. Will you still feel okay to foot the bill?
Romance shouldn't turn into a surprise shareholder meeting when the waiter brings the bill😹😹
But what if the money you have at hand did not cover your expenses and that's all you have at the moment and it's the first date. Will you ask her for support or call a friend for help
First, before going on any date, you check your pocket and you order what your power can carry. Date shouldn't be a place where you go and overeat
Wahala for who never go on date before to experience firsthand who go pay o. 😂
I only see this in stories and contents.
Lol pls come and take me on date then... But based on movie experience or close people, who do you think should pay?
If a guy asks a lady out on a date, he should be ready to pay for the date na. Although I don't understand why ladies also expect guys to buy the dress they'll wear to the date. 😂
Ahahahhaa I'm hearing an update o 😆
When did they involve dress? I thought it's only the food
Like! I was surprised when I found out the update too. They expect the guy to send wears or money to buy a new one for the date... When it's not president they are going to meet. 😂
Abi they use to go around naked since?
😂 I tire.... Even when a guys wants to propose to a lady sef, it's not necessary to get her a new dress unless he is willing to
But yeah, I'm totally up for the splitting of bills if the two agrees to it. But for courtesy, you that invited another to a date should pay and that goes to the lady too. To those ladies that ask guys to go on a date with them. 😂
Exactly 😂 not that you ask the guy out on a date and still expect him to foot the bill as per masculine rights
Let not the inviter override the invitee base on gender Rights... Hmmm hmmm wisdom
But if we must be honest, we can't give a definite answer to this. It should totally depend on the parties involved in the date and what they've agreed on. What is okay to couple A might not be to couple B.
Yeah what works for everyone differs and that copying has actually cost people a lot of things like meaningful relationships
Exactly... I totally agree with you on that. Just like it works for some ladies to profess their feelings to a guy and it doesn't work for others