I agree, and your first line, the twists and turns thing, my dad used to say that a lot. He's gone now but seeing it written always reminds me of his wisdom.
I'm sorry this happened to you, such a terrible feeling and something that certainly changes one from the inside out I think. As you have indicated, some things just happen and then other things happen because of the first things and that sometimes leads to something really great be it self-change and enlightenment, wisdom, greater emotional strength and even better relationships as you describe.
You are someone who (I think) has been through many things, difficult ones, as have I, and I think you're better for it including this scenario above.
Thanks for sharing something personal.
