Thank you @justclickindiva,
When you become a mother, it is for life and I know they have to make their own choices but still, the mother in me worries about them. Like I said in my post, I used to worry myself sick but one day I looked back at all the hard times and thought how did I ever get through this? So one day it hit me, things will work out, they always have and always will, we get through them and move on to the next crisis, I like to say, "This too, shall pass." and it does.