When I read through this, a kind of smile came to my face, not because of what the lady did, but because of how many people, especially women, will react to this in our woConsidering Looking at the old custom, some stexpect the men to ta,ke the led,& then,we have publ.pinions....
But what I see is that, once a lady is so sure, knowing fully that it's a fine deal, and the man is taking long, age can go ahead.
However,it still all comes down to whether the lady is ready to break the....
rule,ready for what comes with it and choose between old custom and the modern tradition
Some says the are in the modern era but still do things in the old way. To me, I see nothing bad when a lady does it just that our society will see it as weird
It's only weird or bad until it comes to an individual level, do you want a woman to ask you out or would you like to be the one who asks a man out?
I'd still be the one to ask. That's my preference, not because I believe a woman asking is wrong. I don't think who asks first determines the value or success of the relationship
That's a good mindset. We should focus more on our preferences over what society says it must be.
It totally depends on the individual. And I'll say it should be the case of "a good woman" really found "a good man" because if it's a wrong man or woman, they will be used or create a war home.
The same for when the man makes the move though.
It's how it have been but I get how it should be the women taking the move sometimes. Still, men are made to lead in every aspect as God has made them though. 🫠
Leading and proposing aren't necessarily the same thing though. A woman proposing doesn't automatically mean the man stops leading. Sometimes it's simply one person expressing interest first. Don't confuse that aspect
That's exactly my point😅 Something doesn't have to be relatable to be valid. If a man expressing interest first doesn't define his leadership, neither does a woman expressing interest take it away
Hope you get
But if it occurs ehn, such lady will trend unless it was done in their private room
But people don't see it that way o and rn it has made so many ladies shut down on that idea of taking the first move except all these very exposed ladies who do not send anyone