One of them for me is why parenting work is left to the woman alone when both parents brought the children to the world. If child grows up bad, it's mother's fault. If child grows up good, it's father's pride. Both should have a hand in that child's life no matter what.
I agree that both parents should be actively involved. But do you think society always gives fathers the credit when a child turns out well? I've seen many cases where mothers receive the praise too...
Maybe the real issue isn't who gets the credit, but that people tend to place almost all the responsibility on the parent who is more present. If that's the case, isn't absence the bigger problem than gender?
Yeah, it is the bigger problem. And a lot of the time, it's the fathers not being present.
I agree that absent fathers are a real issue. But I wonder if the blame falls on mothers mainly because they're usually the ones who stay. If the roles were reversed and the father was the present parent while the mother was absent.....
do you think society would blame him just as much? Maybe the issue is less about gender and more about who remains to carry the responsibility
Yeah, it is more about who carries the responsibility and both are supposed to.
I feel like it's about who carries the responsibility cos even mothers who fails to carry theirs are been nailed on the cross
Not always but I'm more of the part where a child turns out bad and mothers get the blame.
I still talked about this today with someone. 4 eyes brought a child to the world and you expect the mother alone to carry the baby when he or she is crying